MENTORSHIP
UNDONE
UNDONE
A word that can mean something different for each of us depending on our path, our life, our mission.
For you UNDONE may mean there is literally something left undone in your life that you’ve always wanted to do, but have put off for good reasons, or those reasons that seems good enough to keep us from the life we feel we are meant to live.
Or UNDONE could point to the ways in which your life has come undone; that something has fallen apart, is in tatters. It is not in the shape that it used to be in. Perhaps you’re not sure if you need to fix it, re-weave it, or let it go.
Or maybe UNDONE represents that it’s time for you to undo something or to become undone yourself because you are ready to move on to a new you, a new life, a new mission.
Or maybe UNDONE is everything, it’s the world, the time we live in. It surely feels like everything has become undone, and you’re possibly trying to figure out how to walk in it, to thrive, survive and create in this new landscape that humanity and the planet is facing right now.
Something is calling you...
You want a more rich, full, aligned life. There are things left undone, and you don’t want to leave anything on the table of life.
And something has been keeping you from it.
You may have already accomplished so much, but you know there’s another layer. With every passing year, it becomes more important to you to use the time you have on this planet to your full advantage, making every moment count. But "the daily" somehow always intervenes, and with more days behind you than ahead, you know it's time to address what feels undone.
Those Undone things may be…
A creative project, or living a more creative life.
Taking back your daily time for more quality time; more quiet, less doing, more communing with yourself, or with those you deeply love.
Moving into new work or a career that aligns more with your moral center.
Manifesting a large vision that must be birthed.
Renegotiating the pace, depth and impact of your personal relationships.
Pursuing a long-delayed passion or dream.
No matter what it is… getting to "done" will require a shift in the WHO doing it. When we are aligned in our truest, most authentic selves, our actions have the most profound potential for impact. The Undone Reteat provides a space to finally honor what has been trying to emerge from the deepest part of you - what must go from Undone to Done - and to remove what's been holding you back, to clear the path for your most rewarding life to emerge.
Nestled in Nature’s Embrace
Set against the backdrop of Sedona, Arizona’s breathtaking scenery and powerful energy, our retreat provides a serene escape from the hustle and bustle of daily life. Immerse yourself in the soothing embrace of nature, surrounded by red rocks, the bluest of skies, and the grounding power of the special place.
Culinary Delights for the Soul
Savor the spaciousness of time away from the pressures and demands of your day-to-day routines and obligations. Plug into a sense of presence where you will be able to feel and hear the calling again. Allow the charm and coziness of The Briar Patch Inn to transport you to your center.
A Retreat Tailored to You
This retreat is designed for individuals at every stage of their personal journey. Whether you’re seeking clarity on life’s purpose, overcoming challenges, or simply reconnecting with yourself, the program is tailored to meet your unique needs.
Your Path to Self-Actualization Begins Here
Join us on a retreat that transcends the ordinary and opens doors to self-actualization. Embrace the transformative power of Sedona’s beauty, the wisdom of holistic practices, and the warmth of like-minded souls on a similar quest.
IMAGINE...
Waking up in a place dedicated to giving you real time and space to get clear on what’s calling you
Feel time stretching before you to find the inspiration and energy you need to make a change
Allow what’s undeniable for your self and soul to have room to breathe
Benefit deeply from the skill and care of two expert coaches there to listen, guide and serve your vision for your life completely
This retreat will allow you to:
Slow down, get quiet and listen to your deepest desires and self.
Get clear about what stops you, why you make the choices that have not fulfilled you.
Learn to balance and honor your longings and the practicalities of manifesting them.
Walk forward into action that feels alive, juicy and relevant to your true self.
Join Us
Join Kelly, Melissa, and a small group (maximum 15) of interesting, inspiring fellow humans in the, “What’s Next?” phase of their lives—on the travel and personal development adventure of a lifetime!
When: October 11-15, 2026
About Your Facilitators
Kelly Carlin-McCall understands what it takes to move out of one’s own way to reach what you deeply desire—she’s lived it, written about it, and created a path for others to do it too. She’s the best-selling author of A Carlin Home Companion, and an Emmy Award–winning producer of the HBO documentary George Carlin’s American Dream. Her 20+ years of study and practice in Zen Buddhism, Co-Active Coaching, and Jungian/Imaginal Psychology are the foundation for her powerful work through Humans on the Verge. Her passion is to help others boldly step into a more authentic, enlivening, and impactful next chapter.
Melissa McFarlane is an internationally recognized coach with 30+ years of experience in executive, business, and personal coaching. As founder and owner of both CSE and The Whole Coach, Melissa works one-on-one, in small group settings, and with committed communities—helping clients remove barriers and cut through emotional, mental, and practical roadblocks so real breakthroughs can occur. Her work focuses on assisting clients to take responsibility for, and then realize, their personal and group potential, whether building their own businesses, another's or their lives overall.
When: October 11-15, 2026
Why Sedona, Arizona?
When we try to envision what we don’t yet have from the confines of what we already have, it is difficult to see beyond the limitations of the existing container. We need to get out of Dodge! It is for this reason that we always choose the most inspiring, open, peaceful environments in the world.
RELEASE patterns of behavior and thought that keep you tied to your status quo
REVIVE your sense of power and possibility
RECEIVE important feedback from peers and your guides, to stay present and move toward your new vision
DISCERN your direction and the best next step
“Kelly and Melissa offer an incredibly warm, safe, wise, anything goes kind of space where you can get in there deep and do important work”
– AVERY
A Week in Sedona Awaits
Our Venue:
The Briar Patch Inn in Sedona, Arizona
Nestled in between the mighty oaks and the towering sycamores in Oak Creek Canyon, lies a nine-acre Bed and Breakfast. Throughout the property, 19 cabins are named in honor of different bird species and trees. It is an ode to nature — it’s what Briar Patch Inn is all about.
These cabins are “rustically elegant,” most have fireplaces, while others have different unique features. They are listed as “cozy and romantic.”
There are no TVs, Internet, telephones, or technological interruptions — it’s a much needed disconnect from the digital world.
Morning Workshops
Intensive Self-Discovery
Every morning, guests participate in an exclusive retreat workshop, designed to uncover the next steps in creating their desired life.
These powerful workshops allow participants to ask the most important questions about their lives, decide what it is they want to accomplish, and create an action plan to do those things yet undone.
Communing with Self
Throughout the retreat you’ll be encouraged to take time away from the group to activate and embody the one who calls you forth, and to listen deeply to her wishes, desires, longings and visions.
Excursions & Adventures
Experiencing Sedona
It won’t be all work and no play! We will go on several outings to take in the best of what Sedona has to offer.
Activities
Sedona is a playground for the soul…
Whether staying cool on a walk through nature, or revelling with more energy in the natural waterpark, our retreat promises you’ll be anything but bored.
Relationships
Make New Friends and Colleagues You Can Trust Deeply
In the workshops, activities, excursions and meals, you will develop relationships with people who are inspiring, capable and caring. They will continue on group calls with you after Sedona, providing a touchstone for the special experience of the retreat, and powerful accountability for your journey beyond it.
Food
What can we say?
We will eat some of the best food in the southwest!
The Adventure Starts Now
Our Retreat Program begins well before the week of the retreat, with monthly group preparatory calls over the summer. The experience then deepens in the 4 day retreat, and finally concludes with re-integration calls after our week together, to lock things in with support.
What’s included:
BONUS Coaching Sessions: Pre- and post-retreat virtual (group/individual) coaching sessions with Melissa and Kelly (value on original page: $3000)
Retreat Workshops: 12+ hours of exclusive retreat workshops with Melissa & Kelly to create your new vision
Accommodations: 4 nights in a charming rustic cabin with comfortable amenities at the Briar Patch Inn in Sedona, AZ
Meals: 5 breakfasts, 3 lunches, and 2 dinners
Not included:
Travel to and from Sedona, AZ and/or The Briar Patch Inn
Insurance to cover trip cancellation, interruption or medical expenses
Some meals and beverages (See which meals/bevs are included above)
Discretionary tips for massage providers and airport transfer drivers
Miscellaneous items such as souvenirs, additional sightseeing costs, personal expenses, added travel expenses
Some excursions may optional and in those cases, may not be covered
MENTORSHIP
With the right questions, some unique techniques, discussion, reflection and a gentle, purposeful space of accountability, you will harness the courage, clarity and momentum to plan and capture the next chapter of your life.
You can’t imagine a better combination of leaders for this experience. Both founders of established, vibrant and successful coaching communities, Kelly and Melissa are a dream-team.
With over 100 retreats, workshops, events and intimate group programs led all over the world, each brings a cadre of unique qualities and gifts built on decades of study, experience and practice.
Undone Sedona features proven training, exercises, worksheets, hi-impact spotlight coaching, and innovative deep-development processes. It is a warm, wise space to explore, dream, muse and plan, that firmly champions you to take on new challenges, bravely release what no longer works, and claim more impactful ways of being in the world.
In addition to the daily workshop time during our trip, Kelly and Melissa are also offering BONUS pre- and post-retreat online Monthly Coaching Sessions (value: $3000) to prepare you to get the most out of your retreat experience, and support you as you re-enter the world.
TRANSFORMATION
Curious what’s possible?
MEANING — What matters most to you? Knowing you cannot run down all paths with the time you have left, which vision of life will bring the most meaning and keep you engaged along the way?
METTLE — What are your strengths? Where do you struggle? When you understand what you can leverage—and you develop yourself in the gaps—you have the power to seize your vision.
MOMENTUM — What keeps you moving toward what you truly want? Installing the right support, habits, structure, and partners eases the effort and condenses the timeline to success.
MAKING GOOD — Are you making your mark, and is it a satisfying one? Every human yearns to benefit others as they live into their gifts. Choose the good you want to create next. Leverage where you’ve already been—using the tools and resources we develop together.
You know there’s more life to live.
There are more adventures to experience, accomplishments to reach, dreams to manifest, big things to do—and small moments to cherish.
With all you do, there is no place or time where you can unplug from the rush of life to land back into an uncluttered and quiet space within—so you can remember what you really want, who you are, and what wants attention next.
You know what you want next, but you feel like you need to meet a new part of yourself to start your new adventure. You need to see with and be seen with new eyes—so you can find the courage and fortitude to begin.
For years you’ve been going and going and going. You know a change in direction or focus is calling you, but you’re not sure how you’d pivot or leap off the path you’ve been on.
You’ve done a lot, made a lot, helped a lot—but there is a dream, an urge that is just for you and not the world. If you don’t do it, you feel you will have left a piece of your life un-lived.
It’s not too late to capture it all.
With the right questions, unique techniques, discussion, reflection, and a gentle, purposeful space of accountability—you will harness the courage, clarity, and momentum to plan and capture the next chapter of your life.
Here are some outcomes others have received by moving through the “Undone” process:
Curated a year of adventure and travel
Walked away from unsatisfying career paths and claimed a new path with increased energy and income
Created successful businesses based on years of expertise and connections
Found the courage to release toxic relationships and create space for true love and true friendship
Aligned with perfect partners to create legacy foundations, initiatives, and experiences
Transitioned to a nomadic lifestyle
Fast-tracked to leadership roles where they could make the biggest difference
Ran for office
Found a path to retirement when no funds or resources existed
Found the wisdom within their own heart and mind to heal and love themselves into peace and empowerment
Made deep connections with lifetime friends
Rediscovered confidence, direction, and purpose
Leapt into creative expression they’d been dreaming about for years
Cleared longstanding depression and self-sabotaging thoughts and behaviors to live with profound peace
Ended decades of co-dependent behavior and people pleasing for a more fulfilling personal and professional path